2022.01.18 11:34 CriptoinformeNews Luna rompe linea de tendencia importante. ¿Nos iremos hasta los $70 en los próximos días?
2022.01.18 11:34 azfun123 Muslim girls wearing Hijab barred from classes at Indian college
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2022.01.18 11:34 iSeekSecrets What do you remember about the last Dream you had?
2022.01.18 11:34 vSqueal i want attention. look at my xiao. he's on pjws.
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2022.01.18 11:34 myktbug Issues with Kallaco testing
2022.01.18 11:34 Specialist_Total Anyone else here driving a W700?
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2022.01.18 11:34 jobsinanywhere Higher Interest Rates = Bank Stock Buying Opportunity
2022.01.18 11:34 PalePrototype How do you like to start your day when you feel exceptionally unmotivated?
2022.01.18 11:34 CrCL_WTB c*na?
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2022.01.18 11:34 MaybeSomeday17 I’m so happy we made this decision this year! Instead of throwing our Christmas tree out, our new baby is putting off tons of new growth! Can’t wait to see what it looks like next year.
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2022.01.18 11:34 yoyobillyhere What this?
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2022.01.18 11:34 Iamlight84 Carelessly deceptive WOT
This group is carelessly deceptive, slanderous and spreading speculation as fact. Do as I did… don’t just research the case… research the folks posting these “facts” and find the motive for the reason they’re doing so….. it all comes down to $$$ and if you don’t kiss butt and agree you’re called a watts lover. I left. I’d implore those still drinking the koolaid to do the same. Unsub. It’s liberating lol.
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2022.01.18 11:34 GMATWhiz RC Main Point| Confusing Words
2022.01.18 11:34 Palaishh Genisect raid happening soon friens 😁
2022.01.18 11:34 AshleyMeyer77 Nada Surf released The Stars Are Indifferent to Astronomy, featuring "Waiting for Something," 10 years ago today in 2012
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2022.01.18 11:34 Bick_Kuttowski What's a crime that you comitted but nobody knows about it?
2022.01.18 11:34 pollitomonito Should I break up with my girlfriend? I think she cheated and I'm devastated
This feels like a movie.. when we started dating (4 years ago) I learned she was still seeing her exboyfriend, they even had sex, I forgave her but it was hard. She said she did it because I was still texting my exgirlfriend by the time we started dating BUT what she doesn't know is that I was breaking up with her (It was a distance relationship and we never met in real life, our chat was in English and my girlfriend doesn't understand as Engish isn't our native language) so yeah.. a break up text vs sex with your ex it. I tried to understand and be open.
Then, around 2018 I started working in an English institute as a teacher, I met people of all ages, I became friends with many of them, and very good friend with a girl (like 6 years younger than me) so, as I used to do with other students, we used to chat a lot in English for her to practice. I used to archive the chats related to my job. But one night she looked into my phone, found the chats, ignored most of other students' and focused on hers. We had a huge argument about this. I never sent her a picture, I never touched a single hair of hers and the same backwards, never an indecent proposal or any hint of unfaithfulness from me, just chats in English but I tried to put myself in her shoes. She said she understood and "forgave me" cuz to this very day I'm sure she still believes something else happened.
Then I found a job 3 hours away from the city in 2019, which meant I had to move but still I was able to visit her and my family on weekends (a trip which was very tiring and exhausting due I had to take many busses and taxis). But yeah, it was hard as we used to see each other every single day, but still every weekend I was back to her. Meanwhile she started studying in college and she met many new people alongside meeting again with old friends (it's a small town). Of course in my new job I also met loads of new people and I became friends with a woman who also started on the company the same day as me. She's like 8 years older and married. One day it happened that we all had to leave the office early because of riots in the city, so we had to take our laptops home and work remotely. She didn't have any bag to take her stuff home, I had mine and offered it to her. ( I used to live a block away from office so taking my stuff wasn't a problem for me) She returned it the day after.
The very next weekend my girlfriend said she wanted to come visit me as she wanted to buy some stuff to bring back home. So I was happy. She bought more than she was thinking of so many things didn't fit in her bag, I offered the same bag I offered my co-worker. When she got home she found an earring in the bag. It was co-worker's. I had no idea. I tried to explain and after another large argument she "forgave" me again. I even had to talk with my co-worker and put her in this discussion. My girlfriend still thinks I cheated on her. (Lots of guys try to hit on her and she's got many male friends and I'm alright with it, but I can't have any female friend as she's so jealous and problematic)
While my time away on weekdays we used to have many arguments at first and we didn't talk much. I remember I ever found pics of her with her friends or chat screenshots on her phone and if I ever found something suspicious she explained and I understood. On weekends we tried not to argue and enjoy our short time together. I even used to buy snacks and food for her week while she studied.
Then covid happened so we both stayed together in lockdown, it was scary at first as we'd live together all alone. But things got better and better. Then I got a full remote job so I moved back my hometown with her and. It's good until today. These 2 years have been the best by her side and I love her truly a lot. She's been there always and has helped me many times. She's been so unconditional.
A couple of days ago there was a strong argument in her family. Her sister (19F) which dates my girlfriend's friend (Mr. X) was found smoking pot with him and her friends (Her brother is in jail because of drugs, besides she's the little sister so you'll understand) and my girlfriend hasn't had the best relationship with her and tried to warn her and they both fought a lot. Her family loves me so much. So that night her sister texted me my girlfriend cheated on me and kissed at least 8 people while I was her boyfriend and even worse, Mr. X was one of them. She claimed they used to sext and send nudes and kiss. And that she cheated on me as well with some people of her college while I was working in another city on weekdays. She sent me some pics of my girlfriend wearing Mr. X's glasses and that he obviously had deleted her nudes. And she had Mr X, one of her sisters, and Mr. X's family as witnesses. So in the end I had nothing but what her sister told me. So I showed it to my girlfriend and she was very relaxed and her attitude was like "of course it's a lie, there's no even proof of anything and all that sounds so forced and convenient" which I agreed. So obviously I believed my girlfriend.
BUT last night she had to leave for a couple of hours and left her phone. I was hesitant on taking it or not. Aaaand I did. All I could find is Mr X's chat where he says like "Sorry, I love your sister and she doesn't deserve that, and your boyfriend is a great guy so he knows now about us and the pictures and everything". In all their chat she NEVER denied anything. She said "All I can say is you're a bad influence to my sister"
So after I read that I called Mr X. He told me lots of stuff.. and the worst is that he gave me names and lots of details there was NO WAY he could have known. Names and details only she and I knew. Names of people we had arguments for and she always found an explanation. And as he kept talking everything felt like a puzzle being solved. Everything he told me fits with problems we had while I was away. He said she always used the earring and my student incidents as an excuse to do what she did. The same thing as when we first started, when she had sex with her ex she used as an excuse my mysterious chat in English of my breakup with my ex. And I remember when that happened and I still didn't know she was overly sweet and lovely. So much it was so strange. And guess who's been like that since yesterday!
So basically I have no proofs besides what Mr X told me. And to make things worse.. her family already knew about this. I feel so humiliated and like a clown. Now when she tries to kiss me or touch me I feel a void in my chest I haven't felt for a long time since she cheated on me first.
I always said, alright, it happened once so it's your fault. But if it happens again then it's my fault. And I feel like it's a pattern, like, she did it once, why wouldn't she do it again? What can assure me she won't ever do it again?
I've turned my back on my family and friends just for her. Now I don't feel like I can trust her anymore... what should I do?
TLDR: My girlfriend cheated on me plenty of times while I was working away. I've got no physical proofs but the anecdotes and everything I was told match perfectly so I don't know how to deal with this.
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2022.01.18 11:34 Lovely_Dovey1 Anyone Selling Goth Lolita Skirt?
2022.01.18 11:34 Frequent-Nothing-384 I think my man has NPD?
Does this guy sound like a narcissist?
Hi I’ve been seeing a guy that to start with is an alcoholic. He acts like a spoilt brat and pouts all the time. He claims he loves me but constantly picks fights with me over things that are so random. He tells me (an empath) that I love my dogs too much and that I’m hurting them by giving them my love. I have two kids one he favours over the other which is the female. He is moody so you never know when hes going to have an episode over something. He hasn’t many friends and seems to favour female friends. I have found him on dating sites( male and female) but says they are old and doesn’t know how to delete them. He seems to never be able to hold down a relationship but no trouble finding them. He calls me names , and abuses me for standing up for myself after one of his rants. Hates the way I drive but he is constantly on his phone whilst driving and display ad behaviour. I can’t play the music I want it has to be what he wants. He has female friends that he messages after we’ve had a fight. Not males. And let’s them no we have problems. He’a into all sorts of strange sexual activities both men and women. But will deny the man part and say he’s only into women although I’ve seen proof on his phone that he has accidentally left open as god forbid any one goes near that phone he will have a panic attack. He works but never has money therefore I’m always the one paying.my feelings say I’m dealing with a Narc?
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2022.01.18 11:34 ge3un got fuzzy bee from only 80 rjs and gifted precise from only 2 gingbread bears B)
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2022.01.18 11:34 BillsMafia336 This page has inspired me. You all have inspired me.
Long time reader, first time poster here.
Covid changed the game in a lot of ways for everyone. When the pandemic started I had just started working a low level(but fairly compensated with decent benefits) position at a huge global manufacturer of various household products. A chef by trade(and passion) I was forced to take a job I didn't really want because it offered arguably the best benefits I had ever received and I needed health insurance for my family. The two absolute downsides to this job were 1.) It was boring as FUCK and didn't not challenge me or inspire me in ANY way and 2.) It was rotating 12 hour shifts. I was used to the long hours from my years in the kitchen but the rotating(2 weeks of days then 2 weeks of nights) I thought I could do it, and I forced myself, for almost 18 months, to work that godawful schedule. It was torture, and there was discussion and an attempted movement in the company to get them to adjust the schedule, either to drop rotation and pay a shift differentialto actually attract people to night shift. The company said no at every turn, even going so far as to say during a focus meeting with upper management about recruiting and retention issues, that a 2 week rotation was "scientifically proven by studies the company had paid for" was ok and had no adverse effects. I sat in that room in awe, that some middle management yes man who worked 9 to 5 had the audacity to tell me that the way I felt, my completely fucked sleep schedule, my not seeing my family for sometimes 3 or 4 days in a row and my increasingly worsening mental health state because of my schedule was irrelevant because of the "study" that they paid for said that what they were doing was fine, despite many complaints by long time employees that something had to give. They flat out refused to change anything. Also, despite the fact that they did have strict Covid protocol in place(, I was exposed multiple times there and upper management at this point was just basically barking orders via email but would never actually step onto the factory floor, because of their fear of exposure. They wanted to stay safe in their offices and get the same production but didn't want to change things to ensure we didn't get sick. Again, they did have PPE and protocol in place but clearly something else needed to be implemented. I was exposed multiple times, somehow never getting sick.(Masks work btw)
I knew it was then I had to make a difficult choice, continue working this job that was literally having very bad effects on me just so my family could keep their health insurance or leave, lose our insurance but get my sanity and time with my wife and 2 sons back. It was not an easy choice to make but I left. I really struggled about it because I felt like I was being selfish and apologized to my wife a thousand times. She was supportive despite knowing we would lose our insurance. So I quit.
I was so desperate to get out of that schedule that I took a job I would have to bike 10 miles away(20 miles per day because my wife and I share a car and worked in opposite directions in town) I was logging 100 miles a week on my bike back and forth to work. But the job was a physical job and my pay depended on how much and how fast I could work. And even after I got used to the ride, I was not showing up at 100% and couldn't keep up the pace to make the money I needed to so, I left there as well. I was losing my mind because despite my work ethic, I could not find the trifecta of pay, benefits and work/life balance. It was always 1 or 2 but never all 3.
That was around the time I found this thread. I started reading your stories and your posts. Seeing you guys saying fuck it and starting to think about and take care of yourselves and fuck these shitty jobs with shitty owners, shitty managers, shitty pay, shitty or no benefits inspired me. I realized that I was more than a worker bee. I realized that I had to stand up for myself no matter where I worked, no matter what I was doing. That I work to live, that I do not live to work. I decided to take that mindset into my next job search.
I wanted to get back into the kitchen but this time I set hard boundaries. I only work days and I do not work Sundays, as that is my wife's consistent day off and the one day my family has to spend together. Even if we just lounge around the house, that would be our day. And my prespective employers would have to deal with that. I wasn't a 20something bachelor anymore. I was a husband and father and my family needed me at home for that day more than some fucking job.
So I put applications out (with my new boundaries CLEARLY stated on both my cover letter and my applications)and started getting responses. Immediately my boundaries were ignored, suggesting that "Nights and weekends were required for this job), stated with various words, both at in person interviews and through digital correspondence. My pay demands were often ignored or lowballed, because of my experience(I've done literally everything in a kitchen but been an executive chef at a 5 star restaurant) so I am more than qualified and have great work references. So they wanted my experience and skill, but would not budge on pay. I hung up on a few phone interviews, abruptly cut off in person interviews when I got the idea that my work boundaries and demands would not be respected. I got laughed at a couple time but just simply walked away from the offer. If you can't respect my boundaries during the recruiting process, I damn sure know you won't if I took a job here.
I did end up finding a place that honored everything I asked for. Sundays(and Mondays) off, no nights and comparable pay for my experience and skill. And you wanna know what? It's a couple that own the restaurant I work at that are almost 10 years you get than me. They get it. It seems that the older generation does not and seems to think that this generation has some sense of entitlement because they wanna be treated with respect, want benefits and a living wage and don't want to be wage slaves their whole lives.
I know I was a little long winded with this but just wanted to say thank you to the mods and regulars on here. Antiwork inspired me to take a small stand for myself and it worked.
Stand in solidarity. Start demanding more. Stop spending your money at places with "No one wants to work anymore" signs or places that are continuously advertising for workers but pay garbage.
It's time to put the squeeze on them. They need us. We do not need them.
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2022.01.18 11:34 SunnetliAteist69 Having trouble with outer wilds
So I downloaded Outer Wilds a few days ago and today the game wouldnt start because it gave the 'App is offline' error. So I tried resetting from the apps menu of the windows settings. Now when I try to download Outer Wilds I get a download error. I am so confused and problems like this happen on ANY game I try to play on the Xbox game pass app on PC. I would really like some help.
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2022.01.18 11:34 Independent-Sink8313 Where do we find the Acknowledgment of Testing Conditions we need to do by Feb 1? It says it’s I supporting documents but I don’t see it
2022.01.18 11:34 PanEuropeanism Euro zone consumers in for a shock as power bills soar
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2022.01.18 11:34 JFMV763 Florida’s Roadmap to Living with Covid (John Stossel)
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